Men and boys should be encouraged to embrace vulnerability and femininity. However, expecting women and femmes to emotionally service the men in their lives is not and expression of intersectionality. It is just another mechanism that asymmetrically benefits men.
There is a relentless, controlling force within many men, and male-identified women, that works solely to criticize and divide women. This force is unyielding, and it will continue to be so until we no longer live in a patriarchal society.